You know how the saying goes – men are from Mars, women are from Venus and they both speak totally, fucking different languages. Well, at least that’s what a lot of men will tell you. In fact, I’m pretty sure that every single guy on this planet has had at least a handful of “what the hell do I say now?” moments while talking to a woman that they’re interested in. I’m sure you have and I know I have. So it’s a good thing you’re here reading.
Man men feel anxious before approaching a woman, because they are afraid of an awkward silence, even more than of a potential rejection. When you’re trying to attract a woman you are interested in, any conversations that you have with her are like little games of poker. Your goal is to get her to invest an equal or greater amount of effort into the conversation, because the more invested she is in your conversation the more invested she is going to be in your interaction.
All great seducers understand this. They know that sharing a great conversation with a woman isn’t just about what they say to her. They understand that it’s as much about what they can get a woman saying back to them.